Tag: anger

Enmeshment Kills Relationships. Here’s How to Fix It.

Enmeshment is often difficult to see in a relationship, but it does a tremendous amount of damage.  Identifying – and fixing! – enmeshment can strengthen or even save your relationship. 

And make you a better parent!

But first, you have to figure out what it is.  And sometimes it’s a little hard to define.
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Learning from Death – Grief and Recovery

Sunday night a friend died.  One of his friends says “He went home for Thanksgiving.  I’m pretty sure he scored some dope there and he wanted to get it all used up before school started again.”

He was one of my favorites.

Super funny kid. 

But, like most mascots, he was scared of his pain. 

Another of his friends said “I remember when I first got into a treatment center here locally.  The guy who checked me in said ‘if you do the deal and stick around, you’re going to see a lot of people die.’ I just didn’t expect it to be him.”

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